Wino Wednesday: Drinking is Exactly Like Having Sex
By Susan Mercedes. Filed in Drinks, Friends, Wino Wednesday |This Wino Wednesday post was inspired by every wine I’ve ever enjoyed alone.
I’ve got a question for you.
There is something I enjoy doing alone. Really enjoy it. On the flip side, I’d much rather do this with another person or even several people. It’s just better that way.
It’s drinking! I don’t mean when I’m on a traveling alone, because I enjoy drinking then. But I’m usually in a hotel bar chatting it up with others. Which really isn’t alone. And I don’t mean when I’m pouring vodka over my Cheerios in the morning. Wait…that’s silly. I don’t even like Cheerios.
So here’s my question to you….
Do you drink alone?
On a normal weeknight, I have a couple of glasses of wine with dinner. Then perhaps I’ll pour one more after Elle goes to bed.
If I have people over, I have a couple of glasses with dinner. Then an unlimited amount after dinner. Then more after Elle goes to bed.
Why is that?
Do you have a preference? Shall I clarify that I mean preferences when drinking. Because we all know that sex is better when we’re not alone.
Wino Wednesday…this weekly feature is designed to share my wine alcohol related stories.



Wednesday, November 18th 2009 at 12:40 pm
I like drinking either way… is that wrong? One of my favorite things is to go to the local bar, by myself for a short period of time, for a couple cocktails. It’s quite heavenly. Then I get lonely. And the phone comes out and text messages get going. and THAT can get ugly.
Susan Mercedes Reply:
November 23rd, 2009 at 10:03 pm
Becky: I have a hard time going to a bar by myself. Mostly because I feel like men look at me like I’m a hooker. And I’m not. Because I never take money from them.
Wednesday, November 18th 2009 at 3:55 pm
I more often than not will have a glass of wine while studying or reading at night. Freak, by the time I get home from working 8hrs and being in school for another 2 I think I more than deserve one!
But, drinking with friends is always better which is why I am just going straight to your house at the end of the day from now on.
Susan Mercedes Reply:
November 23rd, 2009 at 11:07 pm
Summer: You are always welcome at my house. And I still have that bottle of wine you gave me which we need to drink together.
Thursday, November 19th 2009 at 3:19 pm
I kind of drink mostly like you…..a couple with dinner and one or two after the kid’s in bed. The only difference is that sometimes I drink bourbon instead of wine….but not a lot. The only other difference is that since I work Graveyard Shift, sometimes my dinner time / bedtime is at 5 or 6 am. It took me awhile and some convincing from other Graveyard Shifters to realize that as long as it’s bedtime for ME, it’s okay to have a nightcap at 6am.
Susan Mercedes Reply:
November 23rd, 2009 at 10:06 pm
Amberly: That is funny. Here’s my question for you. Do you eat breakfast food for dinner or dinner food?
Thursday, November 19th 2009 at 8:56 pm
I like drinking alone or with people. Sometimes, I pull out a wine bottle and start pouring myself a glass. Then as an afterthought, I’ll ask my husband if he wanted one. Sometimes, he says no. So I drink alone then. Also, I like to drink while reading a book. Oh, and on Fridays.
Susan Mercedes Reply:
November 23rd, 2009 at 10:11 pm
Tara: I love your very first sentence…”I like drinking alone or with people.” That really gives you options. And translates to “I like to drink all the time.” LOVE IT!