Dropping the F-bomb
By Susan Mercedes. Filed in Family |My dad and I have an awesome relationship. He and my mom divorced when I was 18 months old, so I didn’t grow up in the same house as him. Yet since college, we’ve talked on the phone nearly every Sunday. It’s become a tradition.
He has got to be the most brilliant man I know. Who goes to medical school then right after he begins practicing, he goes to law school? My dad. He was a surgeon by day and an attorney on the side as an expert on medical malpractice cases. At this point he has retired and enjoying a sweet life with a beautiful wife in Texas.
He has helped me through difficult transitions in my life…college, career changes, divorce, etc. Both with his never-ending support and his financial backing. I value his advice and words of wisdom. Always have. Yesterday was no different.
Here’s an excerpt from our standard Sunday chat yesterday:
Dad: Dear, I was reading your blog.
Me: Dad, I told you not to read my blog.
Dad: You really need to stop using that f word. There is nothing more unfeminine than hearing a woman talk like that.
Me: Maybe so, but dad, please don’t read my blog. I’ll tell you anything you want to know.
Dad: Really Susan. You shouldn’t use that word.
Me: Okay, fine. It will be my New Year’s resolution. I’ll stop using the f word. For one month.
Dad: Okay dear. Love you. Talk to you next Sunday.
I made a promise. To stop with the f-bombs here. Consider this your warning for a more PG rated blog now. At least for one month.
Dad, you can read my blog now. Love you. Always and forever.
Tags: cursing, dad, phone call



Monday, December 28th 2009 at 12:47 pm
Very nice. Parents should never read their children’s blogs. No good can come of it. Luckily, my parents still call once a week for help finding the bookmark to gmail, so I’ve still got another 20 years or so before they find by blog. Even then they won’t find their way back to it.
Susan Mercedes Reply:
December 28th, 2009 at 8:04 pm
Ryan: I love your story. Parents are adorable. My dad is fairly comfortable making his way around the internet. Hell, he has investments to check.
Monday, December 28th 2009 at 12:48 pm
Awww, what an awesome f-ing Dad!
Susan Mercedes Reply:
December 28th, 2009 at 8:04 pm
Becky: Dude, don’t say that. My dad might be reading.
Monday, December 28th 2009 at 8:08 pm
Listen to your Dad. He has lots of wisdom!
Susan Mercedes Reply:
December 28th, 2009 at 8:13 pm
Aunt Pat: He is. You’re right.
Now my family is ganging up on me. This is my awesome aunt…dad’s sister.
Monday, January 4th 2010 at 7:47 am
Busted!
Susan Mercedes Reply:
January 7th, 2010 at 7:06 am
Joseph S.: I was busted. And being 38, I think it’s worse to have my dad upset with me than it was when I was younger.
Joseph S. Reply:
January 7th, 2010 at 8:04 am
You would be thinking correctly. Just goes to show that after 38 years, you still haven’t learned from your father, to not drop the f-bomb. Tsk. Tsk. Tsk. You are making progress though, so that’s good, and you should be proud of that at least. =)